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Old 08-27-2008, 03:31 PM
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Bullies

ok so a girl in my school was fat..well very fat..
and had those huge glasses which were later replaced by a barbie frame n one with polka dots ...ahem yeah ..
so all these popular kids used to tease her..she used to cry like 24/7.. poor thing..
and now dat shez all grown up, pretty n slim (thanx to weird calorie count diets and exercising)
she goes around bullying kids now :\ teasing them for being fat or skinny or watever ..she bullies them for no reason :\ i mean why???

shoudnt she be doing sumthin against it?
dusro ka mazak uraney se pehle apna time kyun nahi yaad kertay :s
why do ppl turn out this way?
how shud i make her stop?

shes pretty now but not from the inside anymore
everyone like loathes her now...wats the point of looking good after all those wacky diets when u stink from the inside
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Old 08-27-2008, 03:40 PM
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Old 08-27-2008, 04:21 PM
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hmmm u cant really do anything,she needs to realize by her self some time she will realizw wen she has no friends left at all
Soon people will strt making fun of her.......she needs to relize by her self
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Old 08-27-2008, 04:26 PM
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It happens. When people get bullied and stuff they at times take it out on others when they get the chance.
You should talk to her and try to remind her how she felt when she was the victim. Probably won't work, but worth a try eh?
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Old 08-27-2008, 04:40 PM
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hmm, well I guess she just wants revenge. Remember the Columbine High School massacre, those guys were basically taking revenge as well.

Btw, the scenario you are describing sounds very childish, I mean when you get to University/College, I don't think anyone cares about all this, everyone is too busy with their own lives and studies to give a damn about kaun mota hai tho kaun pathla hai.
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Old 08-27-2008, 05:07 PM
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She'll Realize Soon I'm sure, Ths wont prevail long, ya do not worry
Moreover Let her take out her Grudge LOL
umm only way ya could help her is just remind her past.. and ask her to reflect is it da right way. Hope it works
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Old 08-27-2008, 06:45 PM
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Actually, it happens that when you are victimised by any form of physical or mental violence, then basically there are 2 major extremes to what that person can go to: S/He could either do everything they can to PROTECT OTHERS from similar violence, OR turn into an OFFENDER themselves..

This it the second case here - but like everyone said, reminding her and making her relive through her past pain is the suitable way to get her on track..
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Old 08-27-2008, 06:56 PM
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Actually, it happens that when you are victimised by any form of physical or mental violence, then basically there are 2 major extremes to what that person can go to: S/He could either do everything they can to PROTECT OTHERS from similar violence, OR turn into an OFFENDER themselves..

This it the second case here - but like everyone said, reminding her and making her relive through her past pain is the suitable way to get her on track..
I guess you're right, but I doubt she will act this way throughout her life.
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Old 08-27-2008, 06:58 PM
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hmm, well I guess she just wants revenge. Remember the Columbine High School massacre, those guys were basically taking revenge as well.

Btw, the scenario you are describing sounds very childish, I mean when you get to University/College, I don't think anyone cares about all this, everyone is too busy with their own lives and studies to give a damn about kaun mota hai tho kaun pathla hai.
They do actually.. Or at least in my college they do. They can't mind their own business they have to comment on EVERYTHING. The way someone walks, talks, dresses.. everything.
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Old 08-27-2008, 07:00 PM
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@ cricket-critic - Maybe.. Who knows she might have taken a long time to recover, and going through the diets and whatnot to get herself fixed.. There's a possibility that she must have thought of it as some sort of a complex - she was teased for being fat, and now that she's slim and pretty, she feels that their would be no harm in her having a go at it since she's "competent" enough.. Just a speculation..
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Old 08-27-2008, 07:04 PM
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They do actually.. Or at least in my college they do. They can't mind their own business they have to comment on EVERYTHING. The way someone walks, talks, dresses.. everything.

Well there are exceptions, some people go to college and university to do a masters or PhD in bullying Haha!

On a serious note, well I guess there are but I think they are within limits, in high school it's more common.
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Old 08-27-2008, 07:09 PM
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@ cricket-critic - Maybe.. Who knows she might have taken a long time to recover, and going through the diets and whatnot to get herself fixed.. There's a possibility that she must have thought of it as some sort of a complex - she was teased for being fat, and now that she's slim and pretty, she feels that their would be no harm in her having a go at it since she's "competent" enough.. Just a speculation..
Could be! I'm no expert in human psychology, hehe.
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Old 08-27-2008, 07:14 PM
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Could be! I'm no expert in human psychology, hehe.
Neither am I.. Just an observation, like I said
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